Archives for March 2019

Into the Ditch / David Brooks

Howdy, Two Things readers. I’m on the mend after back surgery. In the old days, I loved the endorphins from a runner’s high. A few days ago I felt euphoric over being able to get into bed without cringing pain. Our fragility at any given moment feels absurd when juxtaposed with our feats of strength but both conditions are equally “us”. When momentarily down for the count, it’s best just to laugh at our own expense. I’m grateful for a native Irish sensibility that knows no other way forward.

Humility has always been a characteristic I value highly, and in my recuperative mode, perhaps I’m acutely attuned for it. I’ve been a fan of David Brooks for over a decade and a recent speech of his spoke to me. He’s a brilliant and wildly successful New York Times Columnist and best-selling author. In a deeply brave way, he publicly confesses that his life went into a ditch in 2013.

He believes, and I agree, that the country, too, is in a social ditch. Our rates of depression, anxiety, suicide, and opioid addiction are off the charts. Last year, Fortune magazine reported that nearly half of all Americans feel lonely and isolated (younger people more so than older people). #technology?

What Brooks’ learned from his own experience is poignant, timely and important to be shared because he offers a hopeful prescription for getting us out of our collective ditch. The answer he says is acting locally, investing in the quality of our relationships and sacrificing together for mutual gains. You can watch the whole thing here on YouTube or sample a couple audio clips below before deciding if it’s worthy of your attention. Note: If you are reading on Gmail, you need to go here to listen to the clips.

As always, thanks for your friendship and readership!

Dan

Clip 1: Into the Ditch
Clip 2: When you are in the valley, you begin to learn things.
Clip 3: What the heart desires most

On The Two-Yard Line / Kate Duffy

Howdy, Two Things readers and happy Friday! I mentioned last post that we were going to try some new things at Two Things.

I recently recorded this podcast for work with Marion’s own Kate Duffy. Kate is an alumnus of The (world famous) Second City Chicago. She has written for Netflix shows, performs on Jimmy Kimmel Live and just finished a pilot with Ed Begley, Jr. She also coaches executives and works with leading Universities including Columbia, Duke and UCLA. Marion kids rock!

Kate talks about setting specific intentions for every single thing we do (13:39), not giving up on the two-yard line and growing up with 40 boys in her house (2:15). 

I do wish I was the Mozart of something but alas…99.99% of us are not. Whenever I have enjoyed success, it’s been the result of a grinding hustle. Kate believes in the “10,000 hours” and that, in the end, it’s about the people who don’t give up (8:05). The older I get, the more I value mental toughness and the courage to keep moving forward despite circumstances and obstacles. As parents, it might be the most important behavior we model for our kids.

I am grateful to Kate for generously dropping some knowledge. I hope you enjoy the podcast!

Listen below:

Message Makeover Podcast