An Idea: A close friendship hitting on all cylinders is one of life’s great pleasures. What you learn at some point is that a fulfilling one takes effort. In a lasting friendship, as in a race to Bermuda, there are occasionally moments of discomfort and boredom as well as triumph, laughter and celebration. Elbow Beach and good friends are worth the squalls. Forgiving the inevitable misunderstandings and copping to your own imperfections is a smart strategy.
A Person: I moved in across the street from Rusty Fearing in 1968. Together, we hid during pre-school cleanup and nearly drowned during YMCA swimming lessons. At Tabor Academy we competed across the board — grades, sports, girls — fairly evenly (as far as he knows!). We’ve had big fights, we’ve broken the law and set speed records to Colby College. We give each other unending shit and support. I admire his brains, energy and discipline. Did I mention he’s to the right of Attila the Hun, golfs when I sail and thinks recycling is a hoax? Someday, one of us will have the honor to re-work our Best Man toast and have the final word on our friendship. 44 years gives you that kind of confidence.
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Connect with Russell because he transforms banks and businesses (IBMer), enjoys an occasional cocktail and is a great family man.
